A dating app built with the people who will use it.
Dating apps get built in boardrooms and optimized for engagement. We are building ours in public. The matching philosophy, the features, the rules of the road: decided with the community, not for it.
Vote on what we build See how it worksHow taking part works
Join the conversation
Find us on our socials and say what you think. Every reply is read, and the themes that keep coming up become roadmap items.
Vote on real tradeoffs
We put the honest matching questions to you, the ones with no obvious answer, and you decide. Cast your vote.
Watch decisions land
What the community shapes shows up in the app, and we say why. The public roadmap tracks it as it happens.
You said, we are building it
The first community-driven items land here soon.
Your answer changes what we build.
No account needed. One vote per question. Live results the moment you decide.
Vote on what we buildReady to meet people this way? Open the app.
Want a say before we ship it?
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Vote on real decisions
Pick a side on the matching tradeoffs that have no obvious answer.
The roadmap, now voteable
See what is now, what is next, and back the items you want built.
What changed and why
Every applied vote lands here, with the before and after values.
How matching works
The real pipeline behind your matches, in plain language.
Missing something? Tell us.
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